Friday, August 1, 2008

No one but only You can do it!

Well it’s been sometime I wrote something in blog… can't say I did not have time.. I had and I tried many times to pull out my thoughts in to one place and write something, in which I was a failure: so always I logged off and went in another direction :D
However I thought I should write something today.

Life has been much confusing... (Umm... rather I was confused...) There were good times as well as hard times…
Exams, assignments, which was much difficult as I caught up with a flue… (it was much more tough when people around was making a fuss about being ill and missing exams thinking you are not ill but its just your imagination but in reality you really was ill!) yet when you believe in you and know how to accept what others say life is easy.
Life was full of ups and downs as usual; had some fun times, family outings, batch trip, office work, happy times with loved ones, misunderstandings, cheating, nightmares, heartaches,sharing,baring, smiles, tears… well the list will go on...
Life is always like that,it gives you good and bad both,what differentiates is how we accept the things at different occasions. With things such as age, situation, environment etc. we see life differently.
When we were kids we thought why our parents are always asking us to study, and when we grow up we understood why they did. But as a kid our mind was not matured enough to understand that. Just like that when we were in grade Five we thought the most difficult exam was scholarship examination and when we were doing Ordinary Level we used to think there can not be any exam which is more tough.And then when doing Advanced Level, things changed and we thought it is the most complex exam and this always changed when we finish the exam and move to the next step.
When we are stuck in something, at that point what we think is that what we are doing right now is the most difficult thing. It is not only about exams, when we are having a problem too we think in the same way. We think that no one ever can understand the problem we have and we think it is the hardest thing in the world, and we are the only people who have that problem. But later when we get over it we feel that it is not as difficult as we thought at that point.(but when we are experiencing, it is the most harsh thing in life!) What I think is when we are having a problem most of the times we tend to have an unclear mind and we always think that we know better than others about our problem so sometimes do not even consider what others tell by experience.Person to person and the way the same problem occurs may differ, but ultimately most problems has the same answer and the way we find the answer will make life easy or more problematic!
Well one thing we should understand is almost everything we experience, we are not the first one who go through them, and
to face the situation we should act wise, because when you are in trouble you are not in a clear state of mind where you are not taking the correct decisions always…
It says not to take any decisions when you are Angry, and no to make any promises when you are Happy. So be careful next time when you are too sad, angry or when you are too happy!

2 comments:

~~Me~~ said...

datz lyf ;) life goes up n down!!!

DoT [ . ] said...

tkx ushi :)
life is life.. it goes up and down.. we should face it... living is hard.. one should have courage to live, anyone can die ;)