Monday, December 31, 2007

Good Bye year 2007...


Every end is a new beginning... its time to say good bye to 2007!!
another end.. end of a year.... another beginning of a year!
Let go of all the bad happened in past and keep only the good so you can have a good year ahead!

"Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you think and do. Visualize to practice your actions. Develop a strategy for dealing with problems. Learn to relax. Enjoy successes. Be honest with yourself. Keep your mind focused on important things. Set goals and priorities for what you think and do. Visualize to practice your actions. Develop a strategy for dealing with problems. Learn to relax. Enjoy successes. Be honest with yourself."

Wish you a Happy New Year 2008! Good Bye year 2007...

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

The answer is blowin in the wind.

Marianne Faithfull - Blowin’ In The Wind Lyrics




How many roads must a man walk down

Before you can call him a man ?

How many seas must a white dove sail

Before she sleeps in the sand ?

How many times can a cannon ball fly

Before theyre forever banned ?

The answer, my friend, is blowin in the wind,

The answer is blowin in the wind.



How many years can a mountain exist

Before it is washed to the sea ?

How many years can some people exist

Before theyre allowed to be free ?

How many times can a man turn his head,

And pretend that he just doesnt see ?

The answer, my friend, is blowin in the wind,

The answer is blowin in the wind.



How many times can a man look up

Before he can see the sky ?

How many ears must one man have

Before he can hear people cry ?

How many deaths will it take till he knows

That too many people have died ?

The answer, my friend, is blowin in the wind,

The answer is blowin in the wind.

Monday, November 19, 2007

tic toc tic toc


tic toc tic toc
time is passing so fast...

few days...
for another end of a year
is it an end?
rather I will call
another beginning

tic toc tic toc
life is like a dream
is it?
uh....may be yes
(but there are nightmares as well)

good and bad comes and go
what ever comes
tic toc tic toc.....
time wont stay!

Monday, November 5, 2007

Yesterday today and tomorrow...


You were always there
With me
In my tear
And in my smile


When you are with me
I have no fears...
As you chase away
All my fears!


When I was small
You held my hand
And helped me
To toddle…


As I grow up
Day by day I realize
How lucky I have always been
To have you in my life!


Though I no longer need
You to hold my hand

You will always be
My inspiration...


And I will always be
Your biggest fan
And Will always love you
My darling


Yesterday today and tomorrow
You were you are and
You will be...
The biggest part of my life...

Monday, October 29, 2007

What happened?


All of a sudden all the things around,
They are so strange….
What happened?
Still it is a mystery to discover


There is lot around
But still feels alone

What happened?
Still it is a mystery to discover


The sun shines brightly
But the whole world seems to be dark
What happened?
Still it is a mystery to discover


Can you tell me why I feel like this?
Why I miss you this much?

What happened?
Still it is a mystery to discover


It all happened after you left!
The whole world seems to be alien

What happened?
Still it is a mystery to discover


It’s Still it is a mystery to discover....

Monday, October 22, 2007

There is no other Love like a mother's love for her child


"Mamma
You gave life to me
Turned a baby into a lady

Mamma
All you had to offer
Was the promise of a lifetime of love

Now I know
There is no other
Love like a mother's love for her child"

[Goodbye's (The Saddest Word) sung by CELINE DION]

is not is true ma friends? how much does our mother do for us...? from the day our life began she is the one who was with us... from the moment we came to this world till we could manage by ourselves she looked after us, fed us and did all our work...how many nights must have passed without sleep? how many times must have she starved, while we are well fed? can you ever write the scarifies, the affection, love she has for her child?
can there be a love like a mother?
but when she is old how many of our people remember these things? a mother will never hate her child, but.... how many children abandon their parents?
think my friends...
" Mamma
You gave love to me
Turned a young one into a woman

Mamma
All I ever needed
Was a guarantee of you loving me

'Cause I know
There is no other
Love like a mother's love for her child

And it hurts so
That something so strong
Someday will be gone, must say goodbye

Goodbye's the saddest word I'll ever hear
Goodbye's the last time I will hold you near
Someday you'll say that word and I will cry
It'll break my heart to hear you say goodbye

But the love you gave me will always live
You'll always be there every time I fall
You are to me the greatest love of all
You take my weakness and you make me strong
And I will always love you 'til forever comes

And when you need me
I'll be there for you always
I'll be there your whole life through
I'll be there this I promise you, Mamma

Mamma, I'll be
I'll be your beacon through the darkest nights
I'll be the wings that guide your broken flight
I'll be your shelter through the raging storm
And I will love you 'till forever comes

Goodbye's the saddest word I'll ever hear
Goodbye's the last time I will hold you near
Someday you'll say that word and I will cry
It'll break my heart to hear you say goodbye

'Till we meet again...
Until then...
Goodbye"
please don't forget the blood turned in to milk cz of love...
Love your parents... they don't expect anything from you other than the love they deserve!
can't we at least give that ma friends? think...

Thursday, October 11, 2007

The truth would give me Strength


I felt everyone is going away…
I was gloomy and loathed me,
For being lonely.
But now I know the best friend I can ever have is
No one else but me…


I was afraid being lonely
But I know being lonely is better
Than getting lost among a lot of people.
So I learned to be alone
And like the person who I am!


I saw how I fail…
But I learned that I failed cz I tried
And if I did not try I would not have failed
And if I did not fail I would have never
Gain the confidence I have


I feared of others opinion
But I learned people may have
Opinions about me anyway
And learned to have faith on me
No matter what others say…


I felt that this life is no use
But I saw death is just another beginning
So I learned to enjoy the life
I experienced life’s beauty
So I gained wisdom every day


Even the most beautiful butterfly
Has to undergo a metamorphose
Before it could fly
So I realized that
I still have the power to change the life


I repented on past,
Until I realized I can never change the past
So that it could no longer hurt me
Past is gone and only the good memories should
Go to the future


If you see the beauty of the star light
Even the darkest night can make you feel happy
So the darkness can’t haunt me anymore
I will not blame for the darkness
Instead I will light at least one candle!

Thursday, October 4, 2007

It all depends on ....


If you see a thing as uninteresting it will be uninteresting
If you see a thing as enjoyable it sure will be enjoyable
There is nothing enjoyable or boring initially
It all depends on the attitude you have towards it

It all depends on the attitude you have towards it
What you see as uninteresting will be an interesting thing for another
What is enjoyable for you may be a boring thing for another
It all depends on the attitude you have towards it

It all depends on the attitude you have towards it
The enjoyment is not in the action but it’s in you….
That is up to you to choose whether to take enjoyment or not
It all depends on the attitude you have towards it

It all depends on the attitude you have towards it
People search for enjoyable things

But what they really have to do is enjoy what they have
Cz it all depends on the attitude you have towards it.


Sunday, September 30, 2007

smile among tears!


Yesterday there appeared a smile on HER face...
It was because of HIM…

HE was HER strength...
HE chased away HER fears,
HE taught HER how to smile forgetting HER past!

Alas! Today Suddenly HE has taken HER fears against HER!
The past SHE wanna forget...
HE laughs at HER as if HE doesn't know anything at all...
SHE wished SHE could stop HER tears,which SHE could not!

SHE told HERSELF
"no… ma strength cannot be ma weakness!
I have a tomorrow,
Which I want to face with smile
The fears.... They have to stay with past"

So she let go....
The past has no power now....
SHE will start her new day,a beginning of a new life!

Yea... SHE has a new day....
HE may or may not be with HER anymore...
but SHE will and SHE has to SMILE AMONG TEARS!

Thursday, September 27, 2007

don't forget the opened door...



When god closes one door he opens another.. a picture containing this quote has been on ma bed room from the day I can remember…

But I never thought of that quote…
yea… it is true when one road is closed there are so many opened but we tend to look at the closed door and do not see the door which is opened for us.
When you lose someone, there are times where you really miss them, that you want to go and be with them. In your dreams you go and hug and wish they will be with you again…It is true that “we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives” but after we lose something is it worth to repent on it? can you gate back the things u lose by weeping on it? we do things to lose people we love, may be without even thinking we hurt them.... but when u realize it may be too late!
When you do something you have to always think on other’s Shoes, then you will feel what they feel. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably does hurt the person too. so think before you act don’t hurt others when you live…
Looks… They can be deceiving, wealth will fade away.. But the happiness you gain… it will not leave you till you are departed. So do what makes you happy, but always keep in mind not to hurt someone when you get your happiness.
So
Dream what you want to dream,
Go where you want to go,
Be what you want to be,
Because you have only one life,
And one chance to do
All the things you want in life.

Live your life happily... Enjoy Life! Always remember there is an opened door for you...don't forget it and look at the closed one for so long!

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Live life to the max....


You never know what comes in the next moment!


Life may offer you many bad as well as good!
What really matters is how you accept them.
Even a good thing can be accepted as a bad,
And even a bad can be accepted as good

It all depends on the state of your mind.

So don’t give up! Life is too short!


Live it to the max...

Live on this moment, tomorrow may come or it may not,

But why worry of an unseen tomorrow?

Yesterday may have given you the saddest thing ever,

But it is gone… and you can’t go back and change it either.
So, why think of a past, which is already gone?


If life offers you sun make a sundae..
If it offers you lemon go and make lemonade ;-)

Make the best out of what you have!

Cz what you have you in life depends on you,
Not on anyone else!


You can make a contented life or an agonizing life.

It all depends on how you make things for you...
So make the best for you.
Life is there to live not to suffer!

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Tsunami.... comes unexpected! leaves so fast....! still memories will remain!


After a massive earthquake shook Indonesia a few hours ago, there was a tsunami alert in Sri Lanka.The 8.2-magnitude quake off Sumatra killed seven people, injuring 100s and triggering a small tsunami that hit one city on the island of Sumatra.
Tsunami warnings were issued for much of the Indian Ocean region.
Hearing about the Tsunami alert every body was trying to contact the people they know in the coastal areas.I was on my way back home from work and also tried to call my friends who are passing the sea area at that time, and also the people who live near the sea. As there was a huge congestion in telephone lines it was really hard to get the numbers. I tried all possible numbers and unfortunately or fortunately the first number i could get in to was a person who do not think i am a friend of that person anymore.and i did not remind the way that person think of me, only I felt that I should give the message to as many as possible 'cz its an emergency.
but when that person acted as if that person cant even recognize me I was so confused...shocked is the correct way I guess. At that moment I thought though that person think me as an enemy, it does not matter to me, that person is also a human so I should give the message and keep, and I did as I thought.

Now it says there is no tsunam
i fear... but within me..there is a tsunami a big wave of feelings!
yea... Tsunami... it was a new to sri lanka back in 2004 and today all felt facing the same tragedy again... but what is new to me is the way people change! I knew people change but never imagined this fast!
yea now I feel that there are some people like tsunami... comes unexpected! then leaves so fast and forgets you so fast!
but still the memories of Tsunami will remain!

a beach without the sea...


"you have to lose something to know the value of that thing."

How many times must have we heard this in our life..?
but until we lose something,
we wont realize the value of that thing!
Or will not remind the above said words...!

yea today I realize how much you mean to me
but....
I am too late ...
Cz I have lost you!

Today I understand the value of you!
Life without you is like a beach without the sea...

you are my everything!
but....
I am just is not on time to tell you that!

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

what life's all about


What is this life? Most of us ask... but how many of us give it a thought?
What is life? Is it reaching high in society? Having lots of friends? How much money you have or earn? How much educated you are? Where you got your degree from? How recognized you are? How beautiful/ugly you are? Or is it whose designs of clothes you wear? Is it in which you believe? Whom you trust? The skin color? The cast or the religion you belong?
What is this life all about?
The things mentioned above? Is it?

Life just is not!

Life is about whom you care whom you love or hurt. Whom you make happy or unhappy intentionally! It’s about keeping or betraying one’s trust. It’s about who you have ignored with full control and purposely. It's about what you say and dreadful maybe hurtful, maybe inspiring. It's about friendship, used as a sacredness or as a weapon. its about how you judge another person, starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip. It’s about the judgments you make and why you do so. And to whom your judgments are extended to. It's about jealousy, fright, ignorance, and revenge. It’s about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow and spreading it. Most of all, it's about using your life to touch or poison other people's hearts in such a way that could have ever occurred by themselves.
Only you choose the way those hearts are affected, and those choices are what life's all about.

May all remind what life is all about today!

Monday, September 10, 2007

life is mysterious....


Today I miss ya a lot..
I want to run to you,hug you,and say I love you

but...you are far away
and I know you will never come back to me!

but... how can I forget you
how can I make me believe it is all over...
can there be an end to the thing we had?
how many times a day do I wish you were here with me
the way we once were...
how much I want to be with you...feel your warmth

I wish I can tell you...
but... now you are far away
I know you are gone and you will never be back
and i know i have to let you go
but...
how can I do it?
I still hear you.... I still feel you...
life is mysterious....

I know... it is time I have to let you go
yea it is so hard
people come and go form life
we have to move on with or without them I know you are far away
still you will always be with me


I shout to the empty space
I love you so much and I miss you so much....
Only to hear the echo of my own words…!

Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Stand Beside me


I felt the same breeze of sea....
But...
You are not beside me


I watched the same movie...
The one you love most
But...
You are not beside me


Today I am going in the same path
Same....
Is it same???
No it is not
Cz…
You are not beside me


But I know today or tomorrow
I have to face that truth
The harsh truth of life...
That...
You are not beside me


Yea...
Life is not a dream but a challenge
You taught me how to face it
Today I need you
But...
You are not beside me


I know I can win this challenge
Yea...
You are not beside me
But I have that sweet memory of you
A memory so treasured


I know...
You are not beside me
But you can’t take away that
Memory I so treasure


So...
Today and tomorrow I know
I can keep going
Cz...
Your memory is with me


You are not beside me
I have a strength which
No one, not even you can take
That is nothing
but the Memory of you....


You are not beside me
But…
Your memory...
Stands besides me!

Thursday, August 9, 2007

You....


The people whom you love most will not be with you for long, but the people whom you want to stay away are always around.when you are trying to be happy without even knowing a big cloud of sorrow will cover you up.we think that there will be some one with us... a good true friend with us, in both happiness and sorrow....

yea I found that friend in you.....
once you come on happiness once in the sorrow.... yea to tel you the truth, I really don't like you.but... but... according to the people's definitions of good friends; a person who will not leave you in both good and bad.. you are suppose to be a good friend!
yea.... thanx... though I don t like you I know you are the good friend I ever found!!

Thank you very much....
yea... I was talking about you my dear friend TEAR, the one who comes without even knowing in both happiness and sorrow....

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Vs


girls are like flames....
when you go close you get burned!

guys are like water.....
you never know how deep until you are drowned!

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Girly


It's so strange,

How we think of each other today
Here we are few breaths away…

Overwhelming with feelings,
I think of you…..
Half of me snuffle with you

Thoughts of love still remain
You are my sweet little sister
“girly” in your own words

We are together in the flesh
But still thousand miles away
You have brought a distance between us.
The miles that stand between us today
One, which I can’t wipe out!

Part of me is near
Thoughts of hope implicit
Thoughts of what we were invade
Together but apart… Alas!

I sit here today
And think of the days
Where, you and I were entwined
The giggles shared, the tears wiped out…
Thoughts of love remain true

I still cant believe Sister
We are underneath the same sky
But…
The gap is vast

When I close my eyes
I see you, I feel you
The one I knew so well
The one I love

But I open my eyes to see
You go away
To see you, who is not the one I knew
A stranger I hardly know

Fleeting visits pass
Flames burn within me!
Thoughts of hope understood
Sister I miss you my sweet girly!

The past is gone
I have the present of today
Future is uncertain

But…
Yesterday today and tomorrow
You were, you are and will be my little sister
Thoughts of love will remain true forever

love ya girly


(
Flames burns inside me....

They ask why this “dong” ever appeared!!

a dong who became a Don,
to separate us!! )

Friday, July 13, 2007

Sand Castle


Ever since you walked away from me
I tried to tell myself you are gone
just like the waves wash away the sand castles on beach,
You come to my mind
And do not let me think you are gone

a breeze came with the wave and touched me

I heard a murmur
"I am with you..."
yes he came to me and murmured

He told he is the only one left for me

He never left me ever since you left me
In the darkest night as well as the sunniest day he was beside me
Endless thoughts in the silence of the night
cried out tears and sighs released to the breeze
Only he was there to see

He knows what is burning inside me
He knows he can not ever wipe it out from my heart
When he is around I feel I am not alone

But when he himself is loneliness… What is left?

A sand castle which will washed away from the waves…!

Thursday, July 12, 2007

Y


How strange the way people are changing?
Once a friend once an enemy! I never believed that words could be true. Can a person hate a person whom you cared and loved sincerely? I don’t believe one can. But how can I not agree with what I see? How can I say that’s not hate I see on those eyes, on those disgraceful looks? Yes I should agree there are some but not all who can hate people whom they called friends, called “you are no my friend but sister/brother”! (Should I believe what I see and think that once friends can be once an enemy or should I think there has not been friendship that’s why there is hate in what I see? I prefer latter ‘cz I still am not ready to think what I see is the truth!)
It’s so peculiar how people make you a stranger, allege you for things you never intended to do. How people change their words so fast is mind-boggling. It’s so creepy how people who were so close to you become strangers in a second.
A person who swears you will be his/her friend forever, accuse you for ruining his/her life without a reason, tell you weird things at once and go out of your life forever…. Can that ever happen? Yea how can I disagree with what I experienced in that case too ?
I know it is true but it seems still I am not ready to accept it as true! People who seem to be so caring, so sensitive!
Can they act like brutes? Are my eyes deceiving me or is this world deceiving all of us?
“Brutes” yea I thought that is one of the harshest words I would use to describe people, but when people act like brutes what could you do except calling its brutal?
Once I asked whom we should trust and whom we should not trust, “trust no one” a person whom I adore a lot answered. I was in confusion. Can you live like that….?
When the people whom you adore whom you love whom you trust changes so fast how can you trust anyone? Its amazing how some people in no way trust anyone while some people always trust even they always get deceived by others.How easily some shatter your trust? How easily people accuse you for things you don’t even think of doing. The person who wants to see good to be happened always end up in desolation!some always look only the dark side of a thing.why people forget that there is a bright part too?
How incredible some people utter weird words to break a heart, a heart that is like a glass, which can never make as it was when broken?
How shocking it is to find a person breaks your trust and it is been proved before your eyes when you swear that person will never break your trust? How dreadful to hear a person tell another person the things you said because you were confident of that person will never tell anyone?
How can a person be so deceitful?how can people break their promises so easily? How can a person make you believe they can be trusted when they are really not? And to find that person has cheated you!! Can there be another pain like that?
why.... why people cant keep their word?

Monday, June 25, 2007

Welcome to the Blogosphere.




"They rant and rave, they wax lyrical, they crack each other up; they spout poetry, abuse and sympathy; they analyse politics, plays and personal problems; they post videos, photographs and racy limericks. Acclamations and insults are exchanged under anonymous and unlikely pseudonyms as more and more people join the fray, choosing sides, forming allies. The keyboards click, the screens flicker, as comment after comment follows post after post. These are ordinary people made extraordinary by the revolution they lead. After all, it has already begun to change forever how we see our world. Welcome to the Blogosphere.

It all began not so long ago when in December 1997 Jorn Barger coined the term weblog to describe the process of “logging the web” as he surfed. By mid-1999 the weblog had not only become quite simply a ‘blog’ it had also gathered a small but devoted following – a following that would soon turn into a multitude numbering in the tens of millions. One of the more popular blogging sites – Blogger.com explained: “A blog is a personal diary. A daily pulpit. A collaborative space. A political soapbox. A breaking-news outlet. A collection of links. Your own private thoughts. Memos to the world” – in other words, whatever you wanted to make it. “Bloggers” now “blogged” about just about anything, using not only text, but pictures, videos and even audio and music elements to make their point.

The blog’s popularity lies, at least in part, in its almost magical simplicity. With the click of a few keys you can instantly share whatever you choose with a vast audience; you can make your voice heard, make your opinion matter, be seen, turn celebrity, stand up and be counted – at least in theory. The technology is simple, you don’t need to be a computer wizard or internet geek. You don’t even have to know anything about graphics or the programmes that make these things run. Even better – sites like Blogger and Blogsome will set you up with your very own blog for free."

This is the best ever article i found which illustrate blogging and the bloggers!!! Smriti Daniel wrote so on Sunday, June 17, 2007 in his article "Click on to Lanka’s bloggers" to The Sunday times.

Cheers!! let the bloggers blog.....

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Accept good and bad both!!

one of my friends had written an article on his blog and wanted me to comment on it today!! he asked me to put my idea... reading it and comments on it i understood he asks me to comment against one of my other friend... so i was helpless!! so i put my true feelings about his feelings on it and not to hurt both i made sure i quoted my friends request... unfortunately he didn't accept it..... i have put that comment below but without mentioning the names i have put stars for the names...
and later my friend accused me i am getting revenge from him!!! i cant believe and dont know to whom to tell... what ever it is i am living in a country where people have freedom of thought and which has a law for intellectual property !!!!!

i hope my friend will understand that a blog is a place where one can express their own ideas and to accept others comments depends on the personality of the author!! cz life dont always offer good for u... good or bad one should have the strength to accept... i am really sorry if u thought about me like that my friend!!!cz i ddnt want to get revenge cz i dont have any thing to get revenge on you ma friend and I have never take revenge from anyone who did so much bad on me because I know that What goes around comes around so i dont want to do anything if anyone does wrong he/she will get it later cz i have seen it happen and it will always happen like that!!!

following is my comment i put it here cz i would like to know if anyone out there can see there is any hatred or any word which makes u feel this is a comment which was written to get a revenge???
anyway its up to the owner of the blog to accept or not but one can express their ideas thats what i think.... so my dear i m not mad with u for not accepting cz its ur choice....

"Just do me a favor
please comment on this
write what u feel
Open source is like my life
It's NOT a bullshit
NEVER
I'm worried
hehe :)"
this was a plea i got....
and i had a look @ the post...
ok first i will tell the story is not about Open source or Microsoft!!the thing is its a matter of Intellectual Property stealing... so first i regret about it and i don't think an apology may solve all the things.
secondly i cant imagine y u guys are putting mud @ each other because i know both ***** and **** was ready to participate in this... so my darling brothers please stop fighting! this is a matter of theft and deceiving!! why dont you guys get together and put an effort to stop these things not happen again? cz like it or not Open source will remain and so will Microsoft!! but if u don't act today who will take care of the mis doings of the administration of key institutes and departments... dont be kids! act wisely u guys are responsible if this things happens in future!! cz its ur responsibility to act against INJUSTCE
cheers **** !!
Rock on *****!!
Do ur part... thats what i can say...

Sunday, June 3, 2007

Friday, June 1, 2007

The Different Seasons Of Life

Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.
Don't judge life by one difficult season.
Persevere through the difficult patches
and better times are sure to come some time or later!


Wednesday, May 30, 2007

When a special friend comes in to your life...


once in a while a special friend comes in to your life
and touches you in a wonderful way.
your personalities just seem to click,
and it seems as though your friendship has existed for years.
immediately there is a sense of trust and sincerity,
and a feeling of closeness develops instantly.

once in a while somebody special comes in to your life,
and right away you know you have found friend.
even after parting,that person leaves
such an impression that from time to time
for no reason,you think of that friend
and it makes you happy!!

Monday, May 28, 2007

Feel the lightness of your life!


Give away all you can give...
Don’t expect anything in return
Accept what ever you get, may be good; may be bad
But keep only the good and let go of bad
And feel that good with all your heart
And smile as if you will never have another chance
Take everything easy
And feel the lightness of your life
You may be left out tomorrow by all
But the enthusiasm you got by giving will never leave you


So be content with what you did ! not about what you got!!

Thursday, May 24, 2007

59 years.... (Its back)


We are proud to say we are celebrating the 59th Independence of our Country, Sri Lanka, the “Pearl of the Indian Ocean”: as it was called once; but can we be happy my friends? Are we celebrating the Independence we gained or should Western countries celebrate it for getting rid of us? What happened to the country which was self sufficient with rice? What has happened? Why tons of rice is being imported to us? Why are we still a developing country? A was cable to export crops that was in excess after consumption by its citizens? Why do farmers commit suicide today? because they can’t sell their crops? Why can’t a girl go alone on a road in this country these days where it was said a girl can go from Peduruthuduaw to Dewundarathuduwa with a gem in her hand? Why the news papers are full of articles about rape cases murders and so many corruptions? Why there is lot of murder cases, rape cases, and so many other cases queued up in Courts? What has happened to the society which adored each other? What happened to the so called “DHAMMA DEEPAYA”? Did someone come and change it or did we ourselves change it to what it is today? Why is there an ethnic conflict in this small island where so many different races lived in harmony? What has happened to the country which was full of heroes? What if those heroes come back and see the present situation where they struggled to gain Independence from foreign rulers? Will they be merry to see we are paying debts for the people whom they chased away from this precious country of their’s? Actually can we call we are children of mother Sri Lanka anymore with our heads up? Can we my dear friends? In the Constitution Sri Lanka is called “Free, Sovereign and Independent Republic of Sri Lanka” My dear friends, is this country an independent, free country? Are we working to make it a free severing and independent country or are we just let it be there only in the Constitution? Constitution is the supreme law of the country, if you go through it there are laws which will make this country a heaven if practiced well; but does it happen? From the top to the bottom it is corrupt: we all know it my dear friends, but why do we turn deaf ears and blind eyes on them? This is our country! if we are not acting to protect it today, future… can we even think of a future? Are we developing our country or are we stepping towards the Stone Age again? So my dear sisters and brothers do you think we are doing the correct thing? Are we going to act like deaf, blind and dumb on all the things happening in our country? And can we say we are not part of all the things happening? Can we just wipe our hands saying we didn’t do them so the people who did them are to be blamed? Why? Why can’t we act to stop people who are doing wrong? My dear friends don’t boast of our history, yes we have a proud history but just being proud of it and celebrating an independence which is only history is a joke. Our ancestors struggled a lot to gain this so called Independence, why don’t we take examples from them? And try to make this country a better place to live? Think what have you done to make Mother Lanka proud of you? Just recall, how many times have you disobeyed the laws? How many times did you put blind eyes on corruptions and aided and abetted them? THINK my dear brothers and sisters, before it is too late and act today because prevention is better than cure. And let’s not be a burden to our Lanka Matha but make her proud of us. She needs us my dear friends she is waiting for us. So why are we waiting? We are the ones who give them the power so when they are misusing it we have to stand again it’s our duty. So let’s act today and I am sure it will give us the opportunity to celebrate the Independence in the true sense of the word.

the above post was published by me last February, as mentioned in the following link i removed it. but as i removed it my friend (;-) i am not his friend anymore though i consider him as my friend..)has taken it for granted that i have copied from him. I am not a person who copy like that! if i do i will definitely mention it cz sometimes my posts are based on mails i get....
DoT is not a Loser just cz she value friends please don't misunderstand!
59-years

Monday, May 21, 2007

Walk on your own!




Life is a journey... we have to walk on our own. Hills, valleys, rains, floods, snow, sun whatever comes we have to walk.... But you should never look down at your feet when you are traveling down the road. Keep your eyes focused on what you want to reach... what is true!
Keep your head up and your eyes focused on what you know to be true. Be neither a follower nor a leader. You are not forsaken; you are forgiven, and when shadows exist simply find higher ground to tread upon. If you come across an obstacle or an impasse, pay mind to it but don’t focus on it for too long or your feet may sink into the quicksand that surrounds it. Find the courage to surmount it and continue on your journey.
Offer your hand to those you come across who are stuck in their own personal sand traps, but do not point them in the direction you feel they must go, that has to be their decision. And never expect anything in return. Give what you can give. Only imply to them that they are never alone, and they will eventually find their way. When you get to where you are going and you look back, it is your own footprints you are going to want to see, not someone else’s. The importance of your trials and tribulations is a gift to be beholden, for that is how you will learn who you truly are.